Detour Diaries
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We invite you to join us for the journey, as we reconnect with ourselves — mind, body, and spirit — and step into a new way of being.
Your Questions About Dare Guides, Answered
Curious about what makes the Dare Guides travel community so special for adventurous women? I’m answering your most frequently asked questions about our unique membership so you can see if it’s the perfect fit for your next journey.
What Advice Would You Give a 20-something-year-old?
As I celebrate my 60th birthday on a 21-day road trip, I’ve found myself reflecting on this question I was asked recently by a 20-something-year-old. Here is the advice—and the hard-won wisdom—I wish I could give my 20-something self, in hopes that it lights the way for you, too.
My 21-Day Solo Road Trip
Turning 60 felt like the perfect reason to give myself the adventure of a lifetime—a 21-day solo road trip through some of the most breathtaking landscapes in the Northwest. I’m sharing my itinerary and tips!
What Every Woman Should Know before Her Next International Trip
I am one wLet me start with something we don’t say enough: feeling a little nervous before a trip abroad is absolutely normal. Even for seasoned travelers like myself, a big international journey brings with it a heady mix of excitement and uncertainty.
My Journey with The Artists Way
I am one week into The Artist's Way and reminded once again that life has a funny way with timing. That book has been sitting in a pile on the bottom step of my bookshelf for five years—five years!—collecting dust while I walked past it every single day.
Learning How to Fly Fish
This week, I felt like a true Montana ranch girl. Chalk it up to something on my "59 for 59" list—things I want to say YES to in this last year of my fifties—and this time, it was fly fishing.
3 Ways to Detour this Summer
Are you ready to step outside your routine, reconnect with yourself, and ignite your sense of adventure? This summer, I’m inviting you to choose your own transformative path with three unique ways to "Detour"—each crafted to empower, inspire, and connect you with an incredible community of women.
My 2025 Summer Bucket List
I've always been a gardener. Growing up in Oregon, my parents had my sister and me working alongside them in the garden practically every day. When I moved to Montana, I had to start completely over—learning to garden in this different climate.
Dallas Gems + My Daily Joy Practice
A new habit I’ve picked up is a “spotting joy” practice. The goal is noticing the small, daily rituals that make up glimmers of joy. I’m also sharing how I spent 4 days in Dallas, Texas.
Putting Myself Out There (Even When I’m Skeptical)
These days, it feels like everyone has an opinion on my “single status.” Comments on my dating life like, “Surprised you’re not in a relationship by now!” is a refrain I hear a little too often.
Welcome to Your Aging Games Era
Women’s lives ebb and flow in ways our mothers and grandmothers might recognize, but the magnifying glass is so much bigger now. I’m sharing why I believe our in-between seasons (a.k.a. menopause) are our most powerful.
Dare to Detour vs. White Lotus
Are we all simultaneously fascinated and horrified by the spiraling plot of the last season of White Lotus? (My favorite couple was Rick & Chelsea by the way.) And all the while, you’re kind of thinking to yourself, "But I kind of want to go on a vacation now too..."
The Financial Realities of Travel
I want to have an honest conversation about budgets. I think many of us are thinking differently about our money this year – where it goes, how we spend it, and what truly matters. Here's the question:
How can we still invest in ourselves through travel, even if it looks different than before?
I Took Two Girls' Trips Back-to-Back
There's something special about fully unpacking your suitcase. You know what I mean? When I travel, I want to fully immerse myself in a place, even if it's just for a couple of days. And I always want to leave wanting more. We've all been on those trips where, at the end, you're feeling depleted and just so ready to go home. My trick? I leave on a high note, still wanting to see and do more.
Laura Riordan | How to Bring Your Adventure Home
I am thrilled to be able to introduce you all to Laura Riordan. Laura was an integral part of the genesis of Dare to Detour, as the concept behind Dare evolved out of a homework assignment for a class I took from her and Linda Lesem in March 2017 called What's Next 101. After the class, I continued working with Laura as I built out my concept for Dare to Detour…
The Fear / Joy Connection
The Fear/Joy Connection
How finding joy can rewire your brain. I've recently become obsessed with a new (to me) neurological concept: It's impossible to feel fear and joy at the same time.
Lisa Joslyn | From College Professor to Yellowstone Tour Guide
Meet Lisa Joslyn, and how she's supporting women to feel competent and comfortable in nature's wild places.
My Latest Mountain Adventure
I just returned from the Sisu Ski retreat in Colorado, and my heart is full of that special kind of joy that comes from doing something outside of your comfort zone and spending a weekend in community with other remarkable women.
What My Parents Taught Me about Love
My parents, Janet and Mel, have been my living, breathing guidebook to what authentic love looks like. Married in 1963, they've given me and my sister front-row seats to a love story that's been unfolding for decades.
Dry January Reflections
After quietly taking on Dry January, I discovered something unexpected – the most profound changes weren't just physical (though hello, clear mind and better sleep!), but in how we view our relationship with alcohol as a society. Here's what happened to me, 31 days alcohol-free