Detour Diaries

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Travel, Budgeting Ali Holst Travel, Budgeting Ali Holst

Go All-Inclusive

So, you've been tossing around the idea of Detouring with Dare or maybe you're still contemplating. I've heard Mercury is in retrograde, so if you're feeling a bit on the fence, blame it on the cosmos, right? 😊 I'm definitely feeling the need to be extra careful about all of my decisions, big or small. Whether you're ready to take the plunge or still mulling it over, I want to share the truth behind what "all-inclusive" really means at Dare.

Spoiler: it's seriously everything!

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Budgeting, Travel Ali Holst Budgeting, Travel Ali Holst

Big Money Moves

I’m in the mood to get real about money, and I want to get into how to master the mental moves that happen behind-the-scenes of big purchases. So, buckle up because I'm whisking you away to the vibrant souks of Marrakesh, where I found myself entangled in a whirlwind of colors, culture, and, of course, rugs!

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Self Care, Mindfullness Ali Holst Self Care, Mindfullness Ali Holst

Reclaiming Our Wild Selves

Living every moment to the fullest is something I'm really passionate about. To me, it's about changing the conversation around aging, embracing every aspect of life, rather than chasing eternal youth. It is such a privilege to be alive and what a refreshing perspective shift to have!

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So You’ve Never Been to Italy

Italy has this magic that keeps pulling me back – more than any other place. It's like my heart found its favorite spot to dance in the world. I've traveled here more than any other country. I call it my personal Eat, Pray, Love destination. Seriously, it's the nurturing ground for my soul. From our Detour in the Dolomites last year to wandering the streets of Rome all by myself, each trip adds another layer and I’ve come to realize that if you've ever dreamt of traveling to Europe…

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More Than a Trip

I LOVE love and my heart has a soft spot for Italy, especially in the fall. This October a group of wonderful Darlings will join me as we immerse ourselves in La Dolce Vita at a 16th-century farmhouse among vineyards and olive groves.

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My Self-Care Blueprint

Lately, I've been finding connection in simple pleasures, me-time. Seemingly small rituals have become my sanctuary, providing a much-needed pause in my day-to-day. Checking out to check in is often just what we need.

Here’s what has been keeping me grounded and connected…

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Susi Dokken | Our Stories Matter

I’ve been traveling to Morocco for 15 years in my role as the president of a nonprofit. So when Sheryl reached out for a chat before her Dare to Detour Morocco trip, it felt somewhat natural. We decided to meet for what I thought would be a regular first-date coffee, but within an hour, something profound happened.

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Ali Holst Ali Holst

What I Would Tell My 35 Year Old Self

Life has a funny way of making us think we're running out of time, especially when we're constantly bombarded by the fear of missing out. I've been hearing this a lot from women in my life lately. One thing I've noticed is that many of my friends, especially women my age, feel like they've missed their chance to make significant changes. But let me tell you…

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Travel, Self Care Ali Holst Travel, Self Care Ali Holst

How Travel Can Be the Biggest Catalyst for Change

As we step into the New Year, I want to share a personal reflection that has significantly shaped my own journey. We frequently find ourselves in a groove-perhaps a fantastic one-but it often hinders us from seeing beyond our routine. The most impactful approach to break free from this cycle is by embracing change. Want to know the quickest way to make a shift in your life?

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My Year in Review and Word for 2024

Each year I choose a word that serves to guide me as I make decisions across my life personally and professionally. As we look forward to 2024, I find myself drawn to the word EXCEPTIONAL.

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Ali Holst Ali Holst

How to Experience the NFR as a Newbie

The National Finals Rodeo has been on my bucket list for ages, and I finally had the chance to experience it. 2 full days were definitely not enough but thankfully, I plan to go back, and I can't wait to share my tips for a first-timer!

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Sheryl Wright Sheryl Wright

How To Create New Holiday Traditions

This year's season holds a special significance for me in tradition-making as it will be the first time since my divorce that I will gather with both of my kids for a holiday celebration. Here are a few ways I am celebrating the magic of the season this year…

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Ali Holst Ali Holst

The Holiday Gift Guide for Daring Women in Your Life

Welcome to Dare to Detour’s Holiday Gift Guide! It's been created with so much love and care, and I hope it brings joy and inspiration to you or the special women in your life. Included are my favorite gifts for travel, backpacking, wellness, and more!

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Self Care Ali Holst Self Care Ali Holst

5 Things I'm Daring Myself to do in November

A new month! November has always held a special place in my heart. As the crisp autumn air settles in we begin to embrace the snow. November invites us to slow down and reflect, to get cozy, and to reconnect. That's why I wanted to share my November list with you this week.

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